At our graduation in '90 my mom was 54. Now she's 90.
It's '90 classmate Steve Kong, and I moderate small, private groups for classmates navigating the journey of having aging parents. Six classmates per group. 1 hour, monthly on Zoom. Backed up by a private Telegram chat for your group plus a weekly Friday email offering insights and resources. Come try one Zoom call and see if it's for you?
How It Works
Pick a Session
Choose the monthly time slot that works for your schedule from the calendar below.
Join Your Group
You'll be placed with fellow Dartmouth '90 alumni. Same group each month. Don't worry: you won't be trapped—you can leave the group or pause participation at any time.
No Prep Needed
Just hit the Zoom link and join your peers in a casual, facilitated conversation—one that is actually filled with levity, despite the general downer subject!
Upcoming Sessions
Click on any session to see details and book your spot.
All times are in Eastern Time (EST)
May 2026
Why a Group for '90?
You walked the Green together. You're at the same stage of life. When someone in your group says "my mom called at 2 AM again," you don't just understand the caregiving — you understand the person. That shared history is what makes this group different.
Each session is professionally facilitated, fully confidential, and limited to six Dartmouth '90 alumni so everyone has space to be heard.